Successful people often give advice based on their current lifestyle, not what actually helped them succeed initially.
The strategies they use now (e.g., balance, ease, detachment) helped them sustain success—not create it.
Many forget or gloss over the intense effort, obsession, and sacrifice they made early on.
They preach balance and grace now, but originally worked obsessively and intensely to achieve success.
Their current motivations (peace, purpose) differ from earlier ones (fear, insecurity, resentment).
Early-stage success is often driven by pain, insecurity, and a desire to prove oneself—not serenity.
Promoting "balanced" drive is like promoting "defund the police" from a safe, privileged position—it doesn't reflect the needs of those still struggling.
Beginners can't replicate late-stage strategies and expect early-stage outcomes.
Ask what successful people did when they were at your stage, not what they do now.
Understanding that different life phases require different approaches is crucial.